I tend to be a very argumentative person. But lately I've noticed that this has a negative affect on those around me.
Luckily I've stumbled upon this article called 10 things to say to keep the peace. Its a great way to stop the fight before it happens, whether it be your parents, friends, or co-workers.
Let me summarize the key phrases that will help you keep the peace.
1. "Thank you for your opinion. I'll think about it." When people give you unsolicited advice.
2. "Is this a good time for you?" This one is great for talking to people who are really busy or have a tendency to ignore you.
3. "Would you like my thoughts?"
Offering constructive criticism is much easier to deal when its up to the person to decide.
4. "Why don't we get the facts?"
Stop an argument before it happens. Get the facts.
5. "I need your help. Can you please...?"
Just a friendly reminder for people who arn't pulling their weight.
6. "Let's wait on this until we have more information."
Before having an argument, make sure you have the information. otherwise you may find yourself arguing just to argue.
7. "What did you mean by that?"
It's so easy to jump to conclusions, but you know what they say about assuming. Next time try to understand the message the other person is sending.
8. "I don't like that, so why don't we do this instead?"
Rather than complaining or straight-up disagreeing with someone's idea, offer an alternative.
9. "I'm sorry you're upset."
Instead of saying "I told you so" try to sympathize with your partner.
10. "Let me get back to you."
When your put on the spot, its okay to take some time to think about it.
Ultimately, whats more important then the words is how you say them and the meaning behind them. Try to consider the other person, and take the focus off yourself.
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